Am I stressed or can I take stress?

Recently I did a personality test given to mi by a friend of mine... Did the test and found some interesting results.

1. I am confused
2. I am stressed
3. I am less stressed in my actual self

Okie...very much I do not want to believe it, but I always believe that there is always a reason behind it... YOu don't just throw a genius a task to set up this whole personality test overnite, am I right? The genius (so called genius) must had spent thousands and zillions of hours gathering data, speak to people, compile info and come out with this DISC test....

Once again, I believe in myself. At the very same time, I believe that this tool, or indicator, or test, or quiz or personality test is there for a reason. So the moral of the story - I am stressed.

Stress, stresses, stressed!

Hu.....I can take a different approach by using my usual technique. When the situation is stressful - I like to take a deep breath and pull myself out so that I can see the whole pic. When the left hand man is stressed, the right hand man takes a step back and look at the whole pic. When I do not know what is happening, I take a step back; when I feel that everything is too much, I take one step back....

Okie, it seems that on the inside, I am not stressed. Now how to show other people that I am not stressed?

3 types of people exists;
A. You are totally COOL.
Even when the world falls under you, you still can treat it like a blanket and cover yourself, keeping yourself warm to your advantage. You are "there", armed with your life experience and natural skills, you are always there to save the day.

B. "You are totally wayang" Man
These are the type of people who are totally amazing in turning "black into white". Look good, inside cannot make it never mind, live to tell another day. The ability to distort the face so gilak gilak(so good) that you are always there to save the day....Impressive

C. "Got a bit of stuff on the inside, but not showing it on the outside" MAN
Inside can take the amount of tumbling, but the facial, vocal and body language depicts otherwise. You may have the ability, but you do not know how to utilise it effectively...."Save the cheerleader, save the world, but how?" I know the solution is somewhere inside my heart, but I do not know how to use this special power of mine....

Eer...think I am starting to write rubbish, better take one step back and look at the big pic.

Let us recall the earlier observation of mine.
1. I am confused - Tink this is mainly because of the fact that sometimes, I can be so Mr Nice guy to my friends. But sometimes, I can be so Mr Nasty guy to Min, my mum, my bro etc...Given a choice, I will still work towards the personality of the former. Even though the fact that Mr Nice guy may be the loser at times, I am sure that with his preservenance, he will make it and make the world a better place...

2. I am stressed - I am not as good as Jaslin Husband Dave in clinching the Golden Horse best actor award. But in terms of stress, I will continue to build up the mental capacity to do so...like where to eat, who to eat, what to do in off days...hahahaha!

3. I am less stressed in my actual self - Which I feel is good as if I am stressed when I am facing my inner self, I cannot imagine myself working in the outside world.

To conveniently summarise and the perfect solution,


I need to go for my quarterly getaway soon and most importantly, I am what I am....

:)
Aliying

The "Classic"

9 years ago














yesterday, when Min and myself went for dinner

Still the same place, still the same girl - priceless

Coined this as classic. First learned this when I was looking at some of Min's eldest sis's melbourne photos years ago. They had a particular photo posing in front of the melbourne train. So when Min and I visited Melbourne, we posed exactly the same way as they had in the photo. Thought it was quite cool to do that... At least been there done that. Some things had changed, while some things had not.

No more China Jump(that was where we had dinner), but we had the sun and moon jap restaurant....Food there is good, snatching off a 30percent discount on the last day celebration of the restaurant's second anniversary...Sweet!

:)
aliying

YEsterday was sweet

Seldom had a chance to dine out on a monday night, thanks to Min...Had a good pre dinner drink at Father Flanagan's, Chijmes, followed by dinner at Sun and Moon Japanese restaurant.

Later met up with Ah-Frey and Mingyun for a not so crowded gathering at Balaclava..That is right, post dinner drinks are indeed necessary....empty seats on the left, empty seats on the right. Had never felt better b4. Not saying that the place is absolute empty, but crowded enough just to chill....

Got a fantastic gift from Min yesterday, courtesy of Vinson CHua...

THank you all!
:)
aliying

Aliying shall bend time and space to back date the ANNUAL Wala with Eizac

busy drinking













3 drinkers

What a night!! (Actually, a lot of nights had passed since the event occured)The wondering wanderer is back to "lah lah" for 5 days and Ah frey, Min, myself, Kapor and mingyun had the luxury to have a drink at our Annual Wala session! What a drink it had been... lots of catching up and updates on how everyone is doing....

I know that I said that I will drink in moderation and practicality, but when such a dear friend came back, Aliying had to do what Aliying had to do....Beer, long island tea, burbon and the ultimate combination came - Waterfall and flaming combo! Damn!!!!! Fortunately, I had survived...No wasted at all, no wasted at all...Contrary to that, Eizac and Jeffrey had a good time spinning their heads around, teleporting to and fro Sydney...hahaha!

All in all, Eizac is still doing well in Sydney and I must say that it is no easy survival skill in a foreign land...Kudos to him for being the not the usual singaporean representing us out in the whole world out there....

Till the next Wala!!! Eer, I think I am going to Wala next Thu with my JC ODAC guys,....u know?

:)
Aliying

The pursuit of happyiness instead of happiness...

I was given feedback that the blog of mine is not being updated as much as it should be....Man, you cannot blame mi the moderator, as during the Chinese New Year, when you swallow nearly 1.6kg of bak kwa, you really feel shiok man!

Way to go jaden! This boy is here to stay in Hollywood! Watched the pursuit of "happyiness" with Ah frey and coy and found it to be not a too bad show to watch and give myself a five cent ten cent worth of thought after the show. In my own way, what happyiness am I really pursuing in life? Is it a good career? Is it good health? Is it a good spouse? (Oops this one I got alreadi cos Min had been by my side all these years and many good years to come...)

I personally feel that happyiness is a bit everything...Not super rich till I can drive ferrari, but rich enough to buy my drinking buddies a round of drinks at wala wala....Not super healthy that I must eat heathly organic food everything, but healthy enough to live beyond 60 and still eat my roasted duck and bak kwa. Also one spouse is enough to last for a lifetime for mi alreadi...

ThIS is my pursuit of happyiness...yourself????

P.S - I know that the correct spelling is happiness... ;)

:)

aliying