Holiday!

It had been a long long time since I updated my blog...I was away from sillypore for a good 18days.. hong kong,new york,KL and batu pahat...the makan is so good.... Definity the highlight of the year! Came back from leave, got myself settled down and it felt so good to write an entry..let my pic talk!


















Holiday in Hong Kong with my family - Dim Sum, shopping, ladies market, da yu shan






















Holiday with Min @ New York - Statue of Liberty














Our wedding bro and good friend - Stefen Chow, boat ride to Statue of Liberty














Our wedding bro and good friend - Colin Mark Holmes, Chinatown, NY















Bryant park, NY















Holiday 3 of 3 - KL














Got the waffles and root beer!, KL














Butter hey po, begger chicken, etc....













JB makan b4 we made our way back to Sillypore - sitting : Aliying and Ah Frey
standing : Alimin and peanututu



the nex two weeks is kind of critical to mi as I am undergoing a series of "exams" so to speak.. here are some things to look forward for his month..

NuS class outing,
spend time with Min,
attend lum & sizhen wedding,
meet up with vincent.

hope to clear the exams "soon soon smooth smooth steady steady"

:)
aliying

2am in New York

I am typing this using my trusty notebook and hooking up in the Efung's apartment's wifi.

The last few days in NY had been a great experience for min and myself. I had been to some cities, but nothing beats the New Yorker experience - passionate, fair and exciting...

Was at Ground Zero, which is just at the door step from Efung's apartment. Minds start to recollect what happened during Sept 11. Tragedy or conspiracy - you decide

Efung is a living example of a modern new yorker, as well as newly found friends of Min, Sailing and Aloyious in Cafe Wha. (Yes, I am out there drinking in moderation again). Listening to a six piece band, singing "I will survive" and a bride-to-be having a hen's nite doing the butt shake. I had been to St James live performance, but that cames hardly close to what I experienced in cafe Wha! www.cafewha.com

NY is so full of "life"...so full of "passion". Everyone is proud to be a piece of NY and the city never sleeps. Subway wriggle through the underground 24/7, hip hop dancer doing extraordinary street dancing, a saw violinist who uses a saw to play music, visit the Museum of Modern Art and listening to a 3 piece band playing bossa nova music while relaxing with my coffee and New York Cheesecake,

Had such a great time catching up with Efung. I obesrved that although NY is a fast paced society, it had several "slow yourelf down" installations. An example is the cheesecake cafe that we had been to earlier. Sitting there makes mi start to think - about the family who are based in Singapore. I also ponder about the major decisions that I made till now.

I also reflect on my character. Fair vs Nice. Which one do I want to be? Everbody wants to be the Mr Nice guy, but do such a person ever exist in the first place? Do nice guy always finish last? Sometimes, it is nice of you to be tactful, but does it provide you with additional problems? How abt the Fair guy? He is assertive, dare to speak up, able to communicate effectively and provides a win win situation for both parties? This is what I learn today and I am going to experiment with this for a while - be a FAIR guy.

So much things to do in New York, yet so little time!

:)
aliying

life in NY...great so far!

Dear all,

life in NY had been great to mi so far....here are some of the things that had happened till now...

5 jUN 07
Did my personal best of a continuous flight to NY direct... a total of 18.5hours of flight time. Min and I were very lucky to be able to get on board the flight as the flight was really full. The airbus 340-500 ULR flight was really impressive, in terms of the aircraft type and the service rendered to us... So many people are snacking away with bread, tibits and eating instant noodles...tough job tough job for the cabin crew.

Finally arrived at Newark, then took a while to figure out the way to Penn station and took a cab to Stefen's place. My first impression of NY are - fast pace, modern, artistic...
fast pace because all the New Yorkers seems to be rushing around all the time...I hardly see anyone standing around or chatting with people...they just move!

Modern because there are so so many high rise buildings - gothic yet modern

Artistic - hip hop dancing in the subway, yang qin + trumpet + guiter performance, rapper, art pieces, library(the NY central library ie NYCL is such a cool place to be in to create a fashion statement)

Efung just came back from his photography lessons and it was such a great feeling to be able to meet up with a good friend overseas...Hugs and kisses

06 Jun 07
We made our way to the statue of liberty. I am actually expecting it to be bigger...but nevertheless, "been there done that" is our mission for that.. The statue was a gift from the people of France to the people of America. Temperature wise, although it is summer, it is still rather cold with the wind chill factor, say 14-22 deg. we walked to Times square and had a coffee at Bryant park. It FEELS so good to be able to relax our legs in the middle to the city, have a coffee and spend quality time catching up. Had yakitori near NY University to round up the nite.

07 Jun 07
Factory outlet shopping the whole day - Man, 220 shops to choose from - the list of boutiques, you do not want to know...shop shop shop...never shop the whole day in my life b4. Start at 10am, end at 830pm.

08 Jun 07
Fri is "visit the museum free"day. Will be making our way to Museum of Modern Art, Gul museum, check out the music scene at Cafe Wha tonite, with finger food, good live music and beer. Supper may come at the Corner Bistro - serve cheap burgers, fries and drinks at approx 10USD.

Things to come
Central Park
Union square
Empire state building
Brooklyn Bridge
Chinatown

:)
aliying

My holidays had finally arrived!!!

This is my time of the year! After tomo flight, I will be off for my journey to rest and relax

01 -04 Jun : Project Hong Kong 2007 with my parents and ys
Will be visiting the peak and lantau island' catch some dim sum and some shopping

05 - 14 Jun : Project NY with Min
Will get a chance to take the SQ airbus 345 direct to New York with Min. will Visit Efung who is based in New York as a photographer. Statue of liberty, shopping, fifth ave, Times Square, Manhattan, drinking bud, etc

15-17 Jun : Project KL with Ah Frey, my, Min and myself
Had not been there for a while. Will be catching up on some food, and I hope to establish contact with my sec school friend, Big Bear Xionglim over there.

19 Jun : Back on flight to Zurich

:)
aliying

Beer, Wine and Spirit (BWS)

There is really such shop in AUS and US, called BWS- beer, wine and spirit

Had been on a good run drinking with Jeffrey lately .... You can call it lucky that my wife gave mi full green light when it comes to drinking...not sure if it is a good thing or bad thing.

As far as I am concerned, it is a good thing...I like to drink in moderation - she also like to drink in moderation - Jeffrey also like to drink in moderation

But there is always the dark side of drinking - you tend to find listening a bit harder, voice getting a bit louder, situation awareness dropping exponentially, etc....

Control , my friend, control...

:)
aliying

Our next adventure

This year is definitely the year of travel...Huimin and I are looking forward to our next adventure - to the eastern coast of USA, New York....

Got the heads up from Efung....come come come come come come....

Yet to check out the aircraft loading....keeping the fingers crossed...

If the above is settled, I will declare Project NY 2007 open!

:)
aliying

Osaka 2007

Min and myself

Whale shark
















Turtle
















Dolphins

















Jellyfish


Took some time off to go for a short holiday with Huimin.

This time round, we went up to Osaka for some good food and shopping. A very short trip with just two nite's stay. Min could had spent more time there, but because of mi working, we can only stay for two nites,.

It had been really great - lots of eating and shopping! Here is a typical makan schedule. Osaka may be city like, but there is absolutely no lacking of food!

1030hrs - coffee and cheese cake
1200hrs - Soba / Udon / Ramen
1400hrs - chicken wings and cream puff
1600hrs - okonomiyaki
1800hrs - Sushi!
2100hrs - Kirin draft beer

Managed to get two Gundam units at a good price.. This will keep mi accompanyed for a while... As for Min, she got herself some ear rings, clothings and compulsive buying at 100yen shop....

Not wanting to make it a pure shopping trip, we took a while to understand the railway system and made our way for a half day trip to Osaka aquarium. From the above pic, it contained a decent collection of the underwater world. What stands proud is the whale shark kept in a nine storey tall aquarium. A very impressive feat. It feels a bit cruel to keep it under capitivity, in my opinion, but the aquarium does serve as a good place for eco - conservation and educating the general public abt the underwater effort.

Arigato!
:)
aliying

I am not stopping....haffing and puffing

I am everywhere except Singapore...Had been haffing and puffing around....

Looking forward to my off days 18-22 May...

Then will I have time to settle down and type a decent blog...

Stay tuned....

:)
aliying

My wedding photos 02 Dec 06

:)
aliying

Class gathering at Foster

Yet another good drink mustered by the class last sat!!

Here is the front part :

Kind of lucky, cos when I first came to Foster's at Holland V, I was really trying my luck that I will be able to reserve a table of 15 just for drinking. I always had the habit of checking out the place personally to make sure that everything is all right, the drinks are okie, the crowd is not too bad, the service is good, etc...

Came up to the waiter and he called my name instantly"Hi, are you Mr Chong?"...waah! I was thinking - he must be damn good to know the customer name....It turned out that he was a former student of Min and he had met up with mi previously! Min was around also, and hence with a little bit of pull string, I managed to secure a table of 15 just for drinking on sat...good stuff!

Here is the middle:

Very good turnout from my NUS class! It was definitely nice to have the "give the Tiger the man" aka yong yuan to be back with us in the contigent. Gone are the days that he will fall under the influence of 2 bottles of beer...He was drinking a total of 7 bottles of beer in total + half flaming... He mentioned that he felt back missing out all our weddings while he was at work back at Liverpool....

It was nice catching up with Efung too as he made this tremendous effort to squeeze time for this gathering. He was back for 3 weeks and managed to secure a photo session with MM Lee.

When I am typing the journal, he was alreadi on his way back to New York (Round 2) on flight UA804 (Singapore - Narita - Washington DC - NY) He should still be up in the air....

Here is the end:

Yes, 55 bottles of beer spanned, lots of fun, not drunk, just chilled, lots of catching up,

Service by Foster was good and prompt, servers were smily and nice, manager Johnny was personal to the touch and 1+1 beer all nite long is too good to be true. Apple pie as dessert was nice and good music(alt between rock pop to live guitarist)to chill..

All in all, I am very happy with Foster...Good stuff!

:)

aliying

I want beer!

Heineken - Best! The obvious choice for aliying and Min

:)

aliying

Busy busy busy....

I knoe this is the usual mi going hot and cold at times when it comes to writing journals...Should be writing more..

Came back from the mountains after the previous entry on stress...just want to learn the art of steady and here I am, came back from the top of the mountain doing secret training on how not to be stressed....

Ahh....disregard the above mentioned...

Okie, had been busy for the past three weeks actually....fly from wed to sat, rest for two days, again away from wed to sat, then off again on monday to tuesday....Johannasburg, Karachi, Lahore(tried to find some terrorist there but to no avail) and finally Amsterdam!....Amsterdam is the most interesting place of the three that I had been too, so I might cover that in the next entry....

Things covered so far...
1. Managed to convince Ah Frey to buy something unbelievible and he was telling mi the next day that the more that he looked at it, the more he learns to like it...Now i realise the value in branding.......

2. Watched 300 before it goes down from the movie theatre....read some of the blog reviews abt it and finally after three arrangement, I managed to watch it together with Min, Ah Frey and Dave...totally awesome to watch it on the big screen!! Spartans, are you ready to fight, as if the next moment you are going to die?

3. Fu han wedding
Yes, attended yet another wedding of a good friend of mine....came back from Lahore in the morning, caught some sleep and off I go to catch up with some sharks fin and abalone....Felt very happy for him and Shirleen to tie the knot together...the next one, Asher Lum wedding on 070707....Cool!

P.S. Btw, we had a good drink with him, and even his dad came in to intervene and drink with us...He totally gains my respect instanteneously...

4. Rock climbing
Did rock climb at Yishun safra.. Man, it was hard work, hard work...

5. Things to cover in the coming 3 weeks
A. "Give the Tiger a man" aka Yong Yuan is back! Efung aka Everest summitter and photographer is also back in town. The class gathering will rock and chill coming sat.
B. Quarterly getaway with Min
C. Reservist(Yes, I need to dig out my outdated uniform again)
D. Ex colleague gathering(Kudos to Meiting for organising that)
E. Back to the mountains for more stress control management training

:)
aliying

Am I stressed or can I take stress?

Recently I did a personality test given to mi by a friend of mine... Did the test and found some interesting results.

1. I am confused
2. I am stressed
3. I am less stressed in my actual self

Okie...very much I do not want to believe it, but I always believe that there is always a reason behind it... YOu don't just throw a genius a task to set up this whole personality test overnite, am I right? The genius (so called genius) must had spent thousands and zillions of hours gathering data, speak to people, compile info and come out with this DISC test....

Once again, I believe in myself. At the very same time, I believe that this tool, or indicator, or test, or quiz or personality test is there for a reason. So the moral of the story - I am stressed.

Stress, stresses, stressed!

Hu.....I can take a different approach by using my usual technique. When the situation is stressful - I like to take a deep breath and pull myself out so that I can see the whole pic. When the left hand man is stressed, the right hand man takes a step back and look at the whole pic. When I do not know what is happening, I take a step back; when I feel that everything is too much, I take one step back....

Okie, it seems that on the inside, I am not stressed. Now how to show other people that I am not stressed?

3 types of people exists;
A. You are totally COOL.
Even when the world falls under you, you still can treat it like a blanket and cover yourself, keeping yourself warm to your advantage. You are "there", armed with your life experience and natural skills, you are always there to save the day.

B. "You are totally wayang" Man
These are the type of people who are totally amazing in turning "black into white". Look good, inside cannot make it never mind, live to tell another day. The ability to distort the face so gilak gilak(so good) that you are always there to save the day....Impressive

C. "Got a bit of stuff on the inside, but not showing it on the outside" MAN
Inside can take the amount of tumbling, but the facial, vocal and body language depicts otherwise. You may have the ability, but you do not know how to utilise it effectively...."Save the cheerleader, save the world, but how?" I know the solution is somewhere inside my heart, but I do not know how to use this special power of mine....

Eer...think I am starting to write rubbish, better take one step back and look at the big pic.

Let us recall the earlier observation of mine.
1. I am confused - Tink this is mainly because of the fact that sometimes, I can be so Mr Nice guy to my friends. But sometimes, I can be so Mr Nasty guy to Min, my mum, my bro etc...Given a choice, I will still work towards the personality of the former. Even though the fact that Mr Nice guy may be the loser at times, I am sure that with his preservenance, he will make it and make the world a better place...

2. I am stressed - I am not as good as Jaslin Husband Dave in clinching the Golden Horse best actor award. But in terms of stress, I will continue to build up the mental capacity to do so...like where to eat, who to eat, what to do in off days...hahahaha!

3. I am less stressed in my actual self - Which I feel is good as if I am stressed when I am facing my inner self, I cannot imagine myself working in the outside world.

To conveniently summarise and the perfect solution,


I need to go for my quarterly getaway soon and most importantly, I am what I am....

:)
Aliying

The "Classic"

9 years ago














yesterday, when Min and myself went for dinner

Still the same place, still the same girl - priceless

Coined this as classic. First learned this when I was looking at some of Min's eldest sis's melbourne photos years ago. They had a particular photo posing in front of the melbourne train. So when Min and I visited Melbourne, we posed exactly the same way as they had in the photo. Thought it was quite cool to do that... At least been there done that. Some things had changed, while some things had not.

No more China Jump(that was where we had dinner), but we had the sun and moon jap restaurant....Food there is good, snatching off a 30percent discount on the last day celebration of the restaurant's second anniversary...Sweet!

:)
aliying

YEsterday was sweet

Seldom had a chance to dine out on a monday night, thanks to Min...Had a good pre dinner drink at Father Flanagan's, Chijmes, followed by dinner at Sun and Moon Japanese restaurant.

Later met up with Ah-Frey and Mingyun for a not so crowded gathering at Balaclava..That is right, post dinner drinks are indeed necessary....empty seats on the left, empty seats on the right. Had never felt better b4. Not saying that the place is absolute empty, but crowded enough just to chill....

Got a fantastic gift from Min yesterday, courtesy of Vinson CHua...

THank you all!
:)
aliying

Aliying shall bend time and space to back date the ANNUAL Wala with Eizac

busy drinking













3 drinkers

What a night!! (Actually, a lot of nights had passed since the event occured)The wondering wanderer is back to "lah lah" for 5 days and Ah frey, Min, myself, Kapor and mingyun had the luxury to have a drink at our Annual Wala session! What a drink it had been... lots of catching up and updates on how everyone is doing....

I know that I said that I will drink in moderation and practicality, but when such a dear friend came back, Aliying had to do what Aliying had to do....Beer, long island tea, burbon and the ultimate combination came - Waterfall and flaming combo! Damn!!!!! Fortunately, I had survived...No wasted at all, no wasted at all...Contrary to that, Eizac and Jeffrey had a good time spinning their heads around, teleporting to and fro Sydney...hahaha!

All in all, Eizac is still doing well in Sydney and I must say that it is no easy survival skill in a foreign land...Kudos to him for being the not the usual singaporean representing us out in the whole world out there....

Till the next Wala!!! Eer, I think I am going to Wala next Thu with my JC ODAC guys,....u know?

:)
Aliying

The pursuit of happyiness instead of happiness...

I was given feedback that the blog of mine is not being updated as much as it should be....Man, you cannot blame mi the moderator, as during the Chinese New Year, when you swallow nearly 1.6kg of bak kwa, you really feel shiok man!

Way to go jaden! This boy is here to stay in Hollywood! Watched the pursuit of "happyiness" with Ah frey and coy and found it to be not a too bad show to watch and give myself a five cent ten cent worth of thought after the show. In my own way, what happyiness am I really pursuing in life? Is it a good career? Is it good health? Is it a good spouse? (Oops this one I got alreadi cos Min had been by my side all these years and many good years to come...)

I personally feel that happyiness is a bit everything...Not super rich till I can drive ferrari, but rich enough to buy my drinking buddies a round of drinks at wala wala....Not super healthy that I must eat heathly organic food everything, but healthy enough to live beyond 60 and still eat my roasted duck and bak kwa. Also one spouse is enough to last for a lifetime for mi alreadi...

ThIS is my pursuit of happyiness...yourself????

P.S - I know that the correct spelling is happiness... ;)

:)

aliying

Happy CNY!!

Man it just feels so good to be online again...
My notebook is finally fixed up...at the expense of replacing the motherboard....no regrets over it as the hardware seems to be stable...so far so good....

still a bit fatigued from the nite flight that i did yesterday..will be reconsolidating the events and post it on the blog the big way!

A brand new week, a brand new start to our piggy year!

:)
aliying

My notebook had made a decision

Using Min notebook to type this entry...a long time since an entry had been made..

A decision had been made for the notebook - to go for repair...$$down the drain and hope that it will work. Felt it is a pity not to repair it as it is still in good condition for general work, surfing and watching anime... Also to increase it selling price...

Eizac aka wondering wanderer is back in Singapore and believe mi, what a nite it had been for all of us at Wala Wala! Once the photos are in, we will re-enact the Wala Wala experience!

:)
aliying

MY Fujitsu notebook had broken down

My 5 year fujitsu notebook had finally broken down!
I got two options
1. change my motherboard
2. buy a new notebook at the upcoming computer fair...

:(
aliying

noticed and observed

noticed that alot of blogs are kind of slowing down in terms of the entry...mine is no exception....

Wonder if it is because there is no time to blog?
Or is it becuase he or she had a new project to work upon, hence putting the typing of the entry a lower priority?
Or is it because I shack cannot think alreadi?
Or is it because people dare of come out of the "shell" of the blog and meet up face to face?
Or, lastly, is it because we are still strolling ourselves into the new year?

My thoughts, my feelings and my aliying blog..

:)
aliying

Long chat with Jeffrey

just finished a long chat with Jeffrey....anything from girls to investment to long term goals...

also, nice kopitiam beer!

:)
aliying

Efung is safe and sound in NY

Just got the email from Stefen that he is safe and sound in NY....

His journey continues from there on....

As for myself in Sillypore, things are gearing up...just recovered from a cold...not the best of the feeling though...

Tried to develop photo, my portable hard disk cannot work; tried to repair my watch but missed the exit from PIE. I sense a bit of disappointment in my side...However, I took a deep breath and say - there is no need to feel disappointed, there is always the next time... I shall grow from this experience and move on like a man!

Indeed, a man, I am

:)
aliying

Enjoying the few days of leave again....

Back from my flight...taking this time to enjoy the few days of leave...

Esmond tay wedding, baby Jen first year birthday celebration, new school, new reporting officer, new things to look forward for this year, sending off Efung bound for NY....

Too many things to clear from last year...better work efficiently!

:)
Aliying

Merry Christmas to all!

Wishing you all a very merry Christmas and a happy new year!

mi and min and nicole

No.No..No...

No, we am still not on my honeymoon... but we are going in exactly 36hours time....

Went back to work for a while...not too bad with hong kong and Osaka..Now here I am, standing in front of the TV watching "Hitch", preparing myself to go to the honeymoon with Min.

I learned that the history of honeymoon is for the couple to sneak off silently in the middle of the reception to go for the honeymoon. I thought that was really tiring to do so...but it sounds cool though...

that is all for now...post wedding celebration begins!

:)
aliying

Post wedding thoughts

Our wedding is done!

So much thoughts, so much excitement, so much fun and laughter, so much to look forward to, so much to learn from, experience, been there done that!

THat is just so much things, but I will keep it...detailed!

Thanks to my parents for bringing mi up in a stress free environment, giving mi a lot of flexibiltiy to do what I want to achieve

Thanks to huimin parent for giving mi the once in a lifetime opportunity to have Huimin by my side

Thanks to Hendrick, Diana, nicole, glendon, Binghui, Huili, Leia, Kok Heng, Huizhen, Carisse for guiding mi throughout my foundative years with Huimin. I thank you all for giving mi the permission to take care of Huimin.

Thanks to Yao, chunhui, YS and Ah Kim for being part of my Chong family.

Thanks to Jeffrey aka Ah frey for being aliying's co-ordinator, advisor, consultant, drink master, banquet co-ordinator, wine controller, time keeper, drink master, everything! He had been my soulmate for a very very long time, over the never ending kopitiam beer, in Nepal doing the annapurna circuit, QM in JJC ODAC, shacking it out in Tahan together, drinking merrily at wala wala, balaclava, wine bar, sam bar, more kopitiam beer, "five token self made"king in mahjong, watching anime, running and more drinking...
Thank you for sitting down with mi listening to mi ali - that really helps alot, my dear friend.

Thanks to Maggie for being Huimin co-ordinator, organise tekan session, consultant, making sure Huimin is the prettiest, watching her every sec throughout the whole wedding, sharing of pointers

Thanks to Dave for being the muscle man in the brother clan..tough time don't last, tough man do...I will always remember that!

Thanks to Lip Chee for styling his hair just for our wedding..believe mi or not, you look damn good man! nearly swept mi off the ground...You are the person that I knew for the longest since sec 1 and we had not looked back since...I am very very happy that we got hitched together to Maggie and Huimin respectively..

Thanks to Mark for all the notes he had passed down to us with regards to his wedding, appointment list, schedule for that day, anticipating problems, table arrangement formula, things to bring..All these can be bought at a special price of 45USD. Contact aliying for more details if you want to make sure that your wedding is a success..Mine is!

Thanks to Efung for making such an "everest" effort to make it for the wedding...one photoshoot inbetn the tea ceremony and dinner and the standard chartered marthon photo shoot the next day is really a hell of a schedule for you! Not forgetting your wonderful shoot given to us as a gift...thanks!

Thanks to Elsen who make sure that his helping hand is always there for mi. It was really nice to have you by our side :) Always watching over mi, never to slightest wanting to claim any credit...You are the MAN!

Thanks to weimin for enduring my demanding request for the audio visuals....Nearly maxed you out on this highly demanding job!! Both min and myself really enjoyed the montages and the music is fantastic!

Thanks to Julian for my last min request for his help...I will always remember how we go through Tahan together, and I always believe that you still cook the nicest rice when we are camping..Tahan clan forever! Rock with leeches, baby!

Thanks to you, my friend -Colin Mark Holmes, for making such an amazing effort to fly in to Singapore from New Delhi. Your very presence makes the whole wedding unique and interesting.. Your megawatt smile never fails to attract the opposite sex to come over to you naturally. I really appreciate the gift of Ganesh and the multi currency ang pao..Thank you once again, my friend.


Next, to the girls..

Thank you, Jaslin for being so onz since I first met you in JJC ODAC..You are very fierce at the tekan session...BUT I CAN TAKE IT!!!

Thanks to Pei Yin for taking time off to be Huimin sister...Though look blur, you are always there to pick up something that all of us miss...This is what I call "looking at the big pic"!

Thanks to Judy for your "horny" song that I am obliged to dance with....It is really nice, fun and enjoyable to have the element of the "good church girl" for our wedding!!! More Long island tea, my friend!!!

Thanks to Mingyun, aka "Miss Chong", for being such a close friend to aliying and Huimin. YOU!!! I say YOU!!! really had a good time tekaning mi ha!! All the extra large tomato, extra sour lime juice, wasabi with chilli padi and raw bittergourd(I can take on this easily!!!) must be your idea lor....the 1 bird, 1 bird 1 bird +++ mahjong combination, the matriculation no, etc...must be your IDEA!!! YOu!!!!
However, despite all these tekan session, my brothers and I really enjoyed it very much!! All the laughter, all the fun, all the enjoyment and all the rowdiness makes my wedding a very much memorable affair for many years to come.

Next...bear with mi...

Thanks to all our friends, relative and colleagues for taking time off to grace the ceremony.

Like to thanks also those who cannot make it for our wedding, but still, in one way or another, offer gifts and tokens to us - Wayne, Chin leong, Chia Sheng, Eizac, Ting Ting, April, Hanrong, Youtian, Coral, David Teng, Daniel, Fuhan, Daniel Tan, Betty Boo, Gina, We really appreciate that! Thanks

Thanks to all those people who had made this wedding possible - esp Sheena from Grand Copthorne Waterfront hotel, Hisham the floor manager, Stefii florist, my fav florist Eunice, Connie, Timothy, Alex and ah Long the actual day photographer, Ah ju auntie aka matchmaker, the mouse of the day Junda, Sandy(Golden Horse award), Sam and Linda, weiquong for the make up, Shan (Engagement party and outdoor shoot Make up artist), Eugene from Chris Ling and many more...Thanks!

So many people to thanks, so little time...Time for mi not to be too ali alreadi....

Have a good evening, ladies and gentlemen

:)
aliying
T-4days to honeymoon

P.S : photos will be put up shortly due WIP...stay tuned

My wedding - 02 dec 2006

Good morning, my brothers and sisters! Rise and shine! TOday is my wedding day!

:)
aliying

t-2 DAYS to the wedding....

Mine oh mine...T-2 days to weddings...today kind of a breather cos just stepped out of the black box...feeling good, listening over and over again the songs to be played on the act wedding itself...

Feeling: relaxed
Thinking : that i had one more free hour to go b4 I hit on the table allocation
smelling: the good old sunshine...today is one of the rare day that it does not rain in the afternoon
seeing : my LCD screen...if not how to type blog....

T-2 days to the wedding
:)
aliying

The boy just wan all the ang paos!

Glendon boy : "I wan I wan ang pao!!!"


Uncle Aliying : "okie okie..I had all these prepared for you alreadi"










:)
aliying
T- 4 days to the wedding of alimin and aliying

AH Frey

Ah frey is back! And when he is back, he is winning mahjong money again!


Still, but still, welcome back!

:)
aliying

Congrats to Judy and Julian

Happy marriage, Judy and Julian(extreme left)! It had been so nice to see the both of you tie up the knot together...

Never would I expect that bringing the both of you to a trekking trip, unknown to each other then, will led on to a relationship and follow up to be husband and wife...

My heartiest congrats to the both of you, once again.

:)
aliying

My schedule for nov and dec

KUL(16) BLR(19) JNB(23-26) SIM(30) LVE(2-4DEC) HKG(5-6) KIX(8-9) LVE(11-21) HYD(22) HKG(25) SIM(26)

Wat I had done for the last few days...

I am simply not writing as much as I should! The last few days had been intense and enjoyable,..lots of catching up with people and sorts of!

I will summarise this all at one shot to justify the reason why I am not writing as much as I should, also for myself to look back and say that it had been ain good doing all these stuff!

here is goes
weijie wedding on monday - it had been really nice attending a sec school friend wedding at Hyatt + lots of catching up with kok heng, Rijian, lijun, Sizhen, Yee Hean, Mr Bear See siong lim, ziqi father Jinkun, etc.... >>>sorting up my financial policy,...that is tough work to insure myself, went through alot of intrinsic details b4 finalising what I want,, that should be able to cover mi comfortably for the time being>>>Celebrated Min birthday, for the same purpose, for the different experience cos this time round, it is spent with Mahjong and friends>>>Penang to and fro>>>Family gathering, out of the sudden, I found myself talking non stop to Binghui, nicole and Glendon>>>Sort out the details with Sheena of GCWF abt the wedding details...yes, it is just less than a month b4 my wedding>>>met up with my secondary school friends3 times in a week..it is simply amazing that the fact we had not caught up with one another for the last 10 months, it is squeezed up in a week of 3 gatherings...A good one organised by Daniel, along with the ever laughing Kama, the stern and steady father, Jerry and the full of C**p Daniel...not forgetting mi, the pilot turned security guard after work...>>>Hari raya celebation at Kama house..it is so goody to be able to enjoy the malay goodies, self made further>>Oops, how can I forget the exciting Metal slug game whereby you are supposed to drink a bit of reds when your character dies? We end up finishing two bottles of red...haahah! >>> And lastly, sending off Ah Frey at the airport..he will be back in late nov....see you soon, dude!

:)
aliying

~Happy 10th Anniversary, Min~

I guess I will keep this short and sweet...

Happy 10th Anniversary, Min and many good years to come!

:)
aliying & alimin

Should I stay or should I go?

I was reading Mr Miyagi blog and realised that he is moving on from the Mr Brown Show... Kind of sad that the good times had ended, but one had to realise that as one gets himself in the comfort zone, is it time to stay or should I go? Miyagi is the best man to answer himself.

The pastures may be greener on the other side, but there is always a risk there. For one, I am not the super chio ster garang trooper man, so I tend to be more on the conservative side. But too conservative is no good either. Balance is the keyword here..Am I am still working on it....

Was reading Dion blog and realised that much of the year had gone past in the blink of an eye! Very much I wished I could had done more, but there is just too little time(ooh, come on, aliying...think you spent too much time sleeping alreadi and also too much time spent finishing a trivial affair)

For myself and the rest of the readers, let's cherish the remaining days till the end of 2006 and make it a new natural high!

:)
aliying

The 5 day leave had been good!

The last 5 days of leave had been good....

Too good that I had not been blogging for a while....

Many apologies to all...Had accumulated alot of thinking thoughts during these five days...will jot it down and post it soon!

:)
aliying

The last bachelor drinking session...No holds barred!

Was reminded by my friend -...."eer, when are you going to do a write up on the drinking session at ECP chalet?" Still feeling strong after the mumbai experience, I carried on to write abt the last bachelor drinking session with my uni guys at ECP chalet? "what, still got chalet gathering at your late twenties, OMG!!!"

A strong turnout of abt 18 of us came...In good spirit of the class gathering since year 2000. It felt so good to be at the receiving end as Mark and weimin were the ones organising it. It felt so good to be able to attend the class gathering, even though everyone was very busy with their own personal committment.

Kudos to Mark and weimin for organising it. It was a nice and breezy dinner at Scruffy Murphy. Even Kat aka Jieru aka Chio haolian came by to say hi. Believe it or not, the guys do appreciate your effort! You could have just steer clear of us with your roller blading, but you came by to say hi! Nicey!

Back to the no holds barred drinking, after the dinner, it was the time to say "Ta" time. "Ta" to Mini Martell, "Ta" to vanilla volka, "Ta" to Chinese Atomic bomb, "Ta"to Coffee Liquor, "Ta" to Laos beer, compliments from Efung. The drinking is fierce, even for myself....Man, it is time for the previous best three drinkers to step down and to witness the arrival of the new gen drinkers, Mark, Elsen and Thomas...(Thomas would be my next target....whack him big time next.....hahaahahh!)

Good Time? Definitely...Next time still have good time? Definitely!

Pic are belows, copyrights from Mingyun. Enjoy!

These are the MEN!

Aliying and Chin Chew:"you want sake or volka 7 Up??"

Jamson(far left):"I want both"
Three going-to-get-married men(from left:Aliying, Jamson aka big boss and Chin Chew)

Next day breakfast - 2 bowls of Katong laska each....No home sweet home feeling!

:)

aliying

Bombay/Mumbai

The trip to Bombay/Mumbai is worth mentioning cos
1. First time I am there
2. My good old American friend, Colin Mark Holmes is working there and it feels really great to hear from him that he is fine.
3. It feels so good to be near the himalayas again. The weather is not the same though.

The trip to mumbai sorts of trigger the desire to explore new places...Here it goes..

1. Took a tuk tuk to the train station Andheri. It costs abt 25rupees(Rs) and it is similar to the Thai tuk tuk... the usual horning and near misses along the road.

2. Took a train down south to a place called churchgate terminal. Cost abt 30Rs one way. The mumbai train is really notorious and not for the faint hearted. But I must say that it is really an experience. The train, though very out dated, cramped and very crowded. But it still remains as one of the most efficent and cheap way of getting around Mumbai. People of all shapes and size SQUEEZE into the train as one, and people would squeeze into the almost impossible space available on the train. If you are alighting, you better be slightly aggressive and fast cos everyone is pushing one another to get off the train..Must take care! And yes, I saw somebody climbing to the roof and inbetween carriages to hook up on the train. And there is also a drunkard hidding himself under the seat. NOW, I really know that the Singapore MRT is really not too bad after all!

3. At the churchgate terminal, continue your journey to a tourist place called Colaba by Tuk tuk again (20Rs)

4. Colaba is the tourist place where you can find cheap bargains in books (made in India), clothings and accessories. There is also the Colaba market where there are various sales of spices and fruits.

5. Poverty is very much visual on the streets. A lot of built up slums and young singlehood mother...Very much I like to chip in my five cent ten cents worth, but I know I must not...cos this will make them believe thet begging can get them round...And once you give to one, all the rest of them will come swarming to mi. The recipent may not benefit as he or she may be robbed after that...Believe mi, I had seen that with my own eyes in Nepal.

Enough of the mixed feeling, life still goes on, the earth still spins. Photography wise, lots of interesting sights to take of...enjoy!

Anyone want a cooking pan from my head?
Eer, I say again - which telephone line is unservicable?
On the Mumbai train. I am coming home, mama!
Believe mi, this is still not full yet on the mumbai train
Ladies cabin only - no guys are allowed..Interesting!

:)

aliying

Turn left turn right?

Ah Frey and Aliying

:)
aliying

Not blogging, I am

I am not blogging recently.....

So the next thing I tasked myself to do is to blog a good entry when I come back from Bombay on wed nite....

The drinking story will be out on wed nite....

:)
aliying, sleeping early to wake up really early tomo..

Drinking and dining this weekend

This weekend may seems to be a nice chillout dinner at East Coast Park with my classmates...but it seems that there is a even more evil plan to get some of us grooms-to-be to be drunk. We will see, we will see.

Met up for a beer with Efung and Jeffrey yesterday. Showed them to the Maple Bar along Jalan Jurong Kechil around Bukit Timah. A nice cosy pub with Kathy serving us the drinks. They also had Yakitori if you are hungry..definitely goes well with the beer there....Crowd wise, we are looking at executives chilling out after work, some middle aged uncles gathering together for a drink and 3 young punks in their T shirt and Berms standing at the entrance going in for a drink.

Five bottles of beer(SGD33.30) + 3 guys = nice chillout

We chatted alot, talking abt project everest b4 38. It felt so good to realise that the mountain is still in Ah frey's agenda. Initally thought that Full Ironman would be his main stream ever since the start of last year. Now looking ahead, we have two gay friends (Aliying and Ah frey)to climb everest(may not be that mountain, but at least somewhere close to it..) is something I had not done for the last three years alreadi... Kind of miss it...

Efung's Laos trip is very enriching too. Nearly missed his transit as he makes his way from new Bangkok to old Bangkok airport...haahah! Coming back lies more challanges and projects ahead for him....Overseas work next year,...cool stuff!

For the drinks portion, stay tuned!

:)aliying

Haze!!!

The haze is back!
Can smell it in the air, can see it with my eyes, can feel it beneath my skin....

When the real Sunny sun please stand up!

:)
aliying

A much better day today

Much better day spent by waking up early....

Wasted too much time sleeping even as I am not a strong believer of sleeping....Better else doing something...

Interaction with Zhou gong had always been very unproductive...

:)
aliying

Chong the photo Collage maker

Was doing this for the first time for Min's niece's 5th birthday.
Had always been wanting to do a photo collage and felt that it is a good representation of the live you had lived till now...easier also for the guest to have a general overview of the pic rather than flipping through pages and pages of photo album.

A bit of the hard work, but not too hard as some of the photos are shot by self.

When Nicole saw it, she went "wah" and then straight away, went back to her seat to watch the animated series, Mr Bean.

Kids shall be kids.... ha!

aliying
P.S : Photo frame courtesy of IKEA and photos copyrights of aliying, Darth Vader and Destinee78

Just my luck

This is a dated movie which I watched last night. Sum up the story in one simple sentence - The girl is very lucky and the boy is very unlucky. They kiss each other and swap the luck with one another. Then they kiss one another and swap it back again...And again, and again.

How lucky is lucky? Striking jackpot every time; 4 taxis waiting for you everytime you raise your hands; everytime you step out of the house, it will be sunshine; your dry cleaning clothes come back to become a sexy no from Sarah Jessica Parker.

How unlucky is unlucky? Your key broke when you open the door; you got splashed by a puddle of water when a taxi when passed you; your umbrella fail you big time in a torrential thunderstorm; you drop the lightblub when you are fixing up a new one; You come home finding that your place is flooded; You are sacked by your manager for something stupid.

The show is unbelievably and amazingly lucky and unlucky. Sometimes, I wish that all men and women are made equal in terms of happiness, health and luck. But, in the reality of life, we got to admit that this can never happen. Some people are indeed luckier than others. Some people are happier than others. Some people are more contented than others. How abt that small little thought of mine? If I am unlucky today, I am sure that the cycle will be over and good things will come by mi soon? That is when Mr Murphy comes round the corner for a sneak attack on you!

Wait long long hor~

Just felt that in some points of my life, I am really in my down times - to an extent that my friend asked mi to go Bugis Kwan Yin temple to pray pray. The whole 9 months of mahjong had been money out of the tray, not in the other direction. My spiderman figurine fell from the top of the ceiling, comprain comprain and more comprains from myself. Sign....why I cannot be smooth smooth steady steady....To tell you the truth, I struggled quite hard for some of the down times....Trust mi.

But in spite of the downs, had I ever looked at up times? I am in the most pink of health(if you disregard the occasional crazy drinking at times - got to blame Ah-Frey for that!), I am blessed with all four limbs working normally, good eye sight. I got good Hakka Yong Tau Foo to eat, decent job, able to run, financially coming back on track and clearing outstanding accurs. A new home, upcoming wedding and the support of Min by my side throughout the years.

I guess at the end of the day, being self contented is very important. A pinch of luck does enhances the daily lives - Treat it as an entitlement, not a privilage.

:)
aliying

Will be reaching Singapore Sun morning

Will be reaching Singapore Sun morning...then the things to do list starts.

1. Visit Natas Tour
2. Finish up Nicole photo frame
3. Celebrate Baby Nicole birthday
4. Project Holiday

:)
aliying

Disneyland b4 30...can it be achieved?

The map of Disneyland. Yes, I am planning to go there at the end of the year. Had always wanted to fulfil this childhood dream of mine to visit the place. I would not say that I am a hard core disney fan(you don't see mi carrying a mickey mouse bag, using a mickey mouse handphone, using a donald duck wallet)...But you know what...there is indeed a piece of mickey in my house - a 2000 piece mickey jigsaw puzzle done up by Huimin years ago. :)

But the thought of going to disneyland had always lingered in my mind....at least must do it once. DO it good, do it once! I may be a man, but I have the heart of a small little boy at times.... ahahah!

Hope it will be a dream come true at the end of the year...stay tuned!

:)
aliying

Do I love him or hate him?

Sometimes, I wonder.....

Do I love him or hate him? Too much is no good, too little is no good too....but everyone is different... how much is balanced?

:)
aliying

Needing all the help I can get from my friends and family

The wedding is really coming nearer, day after day...
How do I know that?
1. The event manager of the hotel called mi to go for food tasting...
2. The executive in charge of the wedding card called mi to finalise the wedding card design.
3. Jeffrey asked mi if I need any help(brw, he is my chief planner for the wedding) b4 he whizz his ass to Rockhampton, Australia for his one month long reservist training.
4. My mother is sitting at the kitchen table counting the no of cards that she needs to notify her friends and relatives.
5. I had yet to pass the photos to my youngest brother, Yingsheng for the video presentation clip.
6. I had received strong response from our friends who would be gracing the ceremony. To all my friends, thank you for your support! Colin Mark Colmes from India, Eizac from Sydney and Olivia from Perth.
7. I had started to plan for my honeymoon.
8. I had started to flip bridal magazine to think abt what should I wear for the actual wedding day. (Finally my time to ponder what to wear had come!!!)
9. My anniversary with Min is coming next month
10. Huimin eldest sister, Huili asked"how many kids do you want???" Eer.....

:)
aliying

I am hungry!

I need to eat breakfast to fuel new energy for the rest of the day.

I need to make a new pair of specs cos I lost mine recently.

:)
aliying

My house is warmed up...

To my friends,

Thanks to all for taking time off to make it for the house warming...as I am typing this, daniel and thomas are still playing mahjong. Luckily, Huimin is winning money...hahaahh!

All of us, I think, had a good time eating, drinking and catching up with one another...my place is kind of difficult to find...but you all still made the tremendous effort to come for the class outing...thanks!

Thanks for all the vouchers given to mi and Huimin as gifts...that really helps... :)

Attached are some photos of the house warming...Indeed, the house is really warmed, thanks a lot, guys and gals!

:) aliying

My house is starting to warm up....

Info:

Will be having a class gathering at my house coming sat..details are as follows:
where : my house
when: 7pm
what: finger food and drinks on the house
who: my NUS classmates
why: just another class gathering
how : by car, by LRT, by cab, by bike

1. Do's @ my house
play mahjong
Drink, but not excessive
Make yourself @ home @ my house
everyone is strongly encouraged to have fun @my house


2. Don't @ my house
No food is to be wasted
No drinks are to go down the drain or hold it till the beer mug gets warm
No disturbing of my neighbours with loud music
No holding back to have fun


:)
aliying

Looking back at Time

was backup-ing my files when I came across this photo that I had taken this year. Left to right was Jerry, myself, min and youtian. This was taken somewhere in June when my house was just ready.

Looking back, I had known them for half of my lifetime alreadi...since I met them in Swiss Cottage sec school. I strongly remembered that the first time I really met them was in a Swiss Cottage Leadership camp. I was introduced to Jerry and youtian by Ben and Daniel. THose days, I really hated the prefects cos I was always late for school. As a consequence, I had to do corrective work like pick up litters and do other coolie job.

So when I came for the leadership camp, I was thinking...ok lah, just another camp..suffer and go, simple as that.

THen came the hardship during the camp. I must say that it is always through hardship that you get to have great friends who would stand by your side when you are in need. Jerry and Youtian are exactly two great people that fitted into the pic.

Looking back at time, I felt great and privilaged to have a chance to meet these two friends..

Looking back at time
aliying

Devil wears prada

Went to watch the show with Min on Fri...I am sure everyone is writing about the above mentioned show...but here is my critics...*wah lau, you tink u movie critic ha!*

1. Nice
Just thought that this movie is not too bad to catch it off the silver screen. Alot of meaning behind it. Alot fo times, people got too overwhelmed by material stuff...To the extent that they forgot to slow down, take a deep breath and ask themselves - what are you looking for in life?

2. Fashion
Even mi enjoy the fashion segment. If a non fashion geek like mi can enjoy armani and valantino, then everyone can!

3. Andy
She is such a sweet character to Nick...you lucky guy!

4. Good acting
Kudos to Meryl Streep and Anne Hathaway for their excellent acting skills... Sharp and absolutely devil-ish..

5. First time to The Cathay
Good seats, screen and surround sys.. alot of SMU undergrads and Yuppies hanging around...

:)
aliying

The pirates of the Carribean at the wine bar

20 glasses of Tequila pop, 10 jars of long island tea -















Kudos to Efung (first left)who came late because he is covering the Singapore China soccer match as a photojournalist















Myself and Min














Capt Jack is in Zouk wine bar!!!














Wat is happening on my right?? (Jingyi, Chin Chew and Afrey)















Efung, Myself and birthday boy, Afrey

Wat a nite! It had been a while since I had been to wine bar, and I must say that I had a really good time there. I guess the pic best explains the gathering. Nearly "Home sweet home" without realising that("Home Sweet Home" is coined by my friend Afrey, meaning that you are totally drunk and that you cannot recall how you made your way back, and the next thing that you will do is wake up in the next morning either on your sofa bed or near the toilet)..I woke up on my sofa bed...heng ha!

OMG!! This should not be happening to mi...in the younger days, these amount of alcohol won't even get mi to 50% drunk...My alcohol tolerance is on the declining side and this is simply putting mi in an disadvantage for my coming wedding....

...but who cares...drink first, "ta" first, then think later....

Good time, good chat, good laugh and good fun.

:)
Aliying

I am back!!!

I am back in Singapore alreadi!

Need to blog...perhaps more aliying and afrey show?

Stay tuned as aliying and afrey go for their much awaited Zouk long island tea with yuppies all around us tomo...

:)
aliying

I am back!!!

I am back in Singapore alreadi!

Need to blog...perhaps more aliying and afrey show?

Stay tuned as aliying and afrey go for their much awaited Zouk long island tea with yuppies all around us tomo...

:)
aliying